WNY Divorce Mediation

Meet your Mediator

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My name is Rachael Farmer, and I have worked with separating and divorcing couples since 2021. I’m a divorce mediator because I believe there’s a better way to separate—one that’s rooted in respect, guided by values, and focused on the future. Traditional litigation can leave people feeling powerless and disconnected from the decisions that shape their lives. 

Mediation offers something different: a space where both people are heard, and where solutions are created—not imposed. My role is to support you through one of life’s most difficult transitions with clarity, compassion, and calm. 

I don’t take sides or make judgments. Instead, I help you have the conversations that matter, and reach agreements that reflect what’s most important to you.

Whether that’s protecting your children’s well-being, dividing assets fairly, or simply parting ways with dignity, I approach every mediation with the belief that you are the best people to decide your own future. I’m here to help you do that—thoughtfully, respectfully, and on your terms.